When i passed a stool today there was blood on the side of it is it a hemorrhoid?

Tell your boyfriend to gently insert his dong up your dung hole and not to ram it in!

High likely, get it checked asap if not the Hemorrhoids usually grows in set of 3 and it has 3 stages. your seems to be at the first stage which is easily treatable with rubber band ligation (hurts a bit).

if left alon and not treated, you will suffer boy big time and will bleed every second day and you might need surgery up there and it takes a good 4 weeks to get better.

Yes, you might have hemorrhoids. Make an appointment to see your doctor to be sure.